Sibling rivalry

Today I thought I would write a post on something that I experienced as a child, and I am so intentional about my kids not experiencing it. Sibling rivalry. What exactly is it? What is sibling rivalry? Sibling rivalry describes the ongoing conflict between kids raised in the same family. It can happen between blood-related […]

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16 years! Not our Wedding Anniversary though!

What a day. I remember it as if it was yesterday. On a Wednesday 7th July 2004, Robert and I made our relationship official. He asked to be my boyfriend and I said yes… And the journey began! Man, we have been through the most. We had a volatile full of turbulence non-stop roller coaster […]

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He turns 15. Happy Birthday Ethan.

Today, 15 years ago we were blessed with our eldest son Ethan Dugan Phillips. We named him, Ethan because of its meaning. It speaks to his character. It took him 16 and half hours to show his face, and when he did we were so happy his dad was so proud he cut his umbilical […]

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Eden Zyon turns 8!🎁💕👑💕🎁

Today 8 years ago, I gave birth to our youngest of 4, our last born Eden Zyon. Born on the 19 June 2012 at 7:30am via c-section weighing 2.9. We decided on her name because of its meaning as we did with all our kids. Meaning was more important to me, I wanted their names […]

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There is no health without mental health!

2020 has been an incredibly difficult year for most across the world, not only do we have a pandemic on our hands but lives have been lost, jobs have been lost, homes have been lost, livelihoods has been lost and in all of this we need people. We need to have people around us to […]

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What childhood baton are you handing over to your children?

Looking back at my childhood, I had a lot of my parents batons handed over to me, and as a child you don’t realize you carry these batons with you into adulthood, into your relationships whether it is good or bad. You sub-consciously carry them with you. Now, as a child there isn’t much you […]

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Keeping your finger on the pulse!

We all know parenting ain’t easy. Not at all. Try raising a squad! Here Rob and I thought the toddler years are over, and we finally get to catch our breath. Lol, that’s not how it goes. Just as we wanted to take our foot off the pedal, boom. We have teenage sons. Boom our […]

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IT’S A BIRTHDAY!

Yes, someone is officially a teenager! Its the BIG 1 3.. Whoop Whoop. Our second eldest son, Micaiah Kethan Phillips AKA The Mix turns 13 today. Yes, 13 already. Today 13 years ago God blessed us with a son who is strong, caring, loving, confident, knows what he wants and so centered. When we found […]

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Is your creativity in a knot?

Creativity expands our perceptions and along with expanded perceptions come new ways from creating an exceptional design when you don’t know how to. With the global pandemic we find ourselves in, does not mean your creativity needs to stop. Being creative gives us opportunities to try out new ideas, and new ways of thinking and […]

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Why I Self Love?

This is a question I am asked often so today I decided to talk Self-love. At 36, I can say I have found me and I know my worth, why, you may ask? At the age of 30, I made a conscious decision that things need to change. I had to find me, love me, […]

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